This video touched my heart in so many ways that I felt I needed to share it.

Hope it inspires you, as it did me, to follow your #truth

Compatibility and Chemistry in Relationships

This article is a must read. Definitely puts into perspective simple concepts about dating that people often confuse.


Sometimes walking away is the best thing you can do for yourself. Live your truth…#always

Take care

Your Free Tarot Reading


Try this link out and get a free tarot reading.  I have found then to be insightful as well as helpful.

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i like my body when it is with your by e.e. cummings


Love this poem….sexy but classy

Originally posted on Read A Little Poetry:

What you do to me. Wanting me to take you. My fingers in your hair. The things you say: Oh, I do desire you, baby, I do. Suddenly my world is alright again.

i like my body when it is with your
e.e. cummings

i like my body when it is with your
body. It is so quite new a thing.
Muscles better and nerves more.
i like your body. i like what it does,
i like its hows. i like to feel the spine
of your body and its bones, and the trembling
-firm-smooth ness and which i will
again and again and again
kiss, i like kissing this and that of you,
i like, slowly stroking the, shocking fuzz
of your electric fur, and what-is-it comes
over parting flesh … And eyes big love-crumbs,

and possibly i like the thrill

of under me you so quite new

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Almost doesn’t count

While rewatching episodes of greek yesterday and Rusty said something that hit home for me….”You can’t feel guilty over almost.”

In that moment my trails and tribulations of late just made sense. As much as I was in the present in my every day life, my romatic one was filled with “what ifs” and “maybes.” This can no longer be the case as it will not allow growth of any kind.

I find that once you distance yourself sufficiently from a situation,  you are rewarded with perspective. This was something I managed to achive during my recent trip to europe.

A great many truths where revealed to me through introspection. Firstly, I was still interested in et, despite what I thought. I was substituting the attention of others as a means to not feel. Denial was an aphrodisiac that I couldn’t get enough of. Secondly, my friend stru and I would probably never be as we were. Something has shifted and no matter how hard I tried to figure out what changed or how to move forward or evolve, the damage had been done.

Honestly, I realised that I am a commitment phobe as well as empath. I always run when things feel as if they will progress to the next stage. Therefore I have no one to blame but myself for how things out. One thing I can do now though, is try mend the broken relationships as well as be mindful of my triggers.

If we are not learning we are not growing. At this stage in my life I am seeking enlightenment and a deeper undersranding of purpose. Each day it becomes a little clearer…


Its Always Darkest before the Dawn –19.07.13

“In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned
about life: it goes on.”
― Robert Frost

The day was like any other friday, wake up at 05:15, get ready for work and leave by 05:50 at the very least. We managaged to leave 5 minutes earlier and headed out. The wind was icy but I still decided to don a skirt – why not I thought, it’ll get warmer as the day progresses.

My brother and mother were having a disagreement about the previous afternoon and music was  filling the car as he tuned into highveld stero. I was tired since I didn’t get enough sleep the night before that I took out an ear phones and snuggled into the door. Thats the last thing I truely remember as everything has become a bit of a blur.

My eye’s were closed, so I was in the dark for what seemed like an eternity.

Ed (brother) : Fcuk….

Then the moment of impact. It felt like time had slowed down in those seconds. When I opened my eyes again we were parallel with the road with our seat belts keeping us in our places.

Mother:  Are we dead?

At that very moment I felt short changed if the scene before me was the promised afterlife you hear so much about in church and that movies try so hard to replicate.

Brother: No. We’ve been hit.

Marggie (sister) : is everyone okay?

Me: I feel like there is glass in my hair. Where are my glasses?

As I write this I’m taken back to this moment. I found my glasses on my sisters passanger door. She unbuckled herself fist before helping the rest of us out. We were all so calm and once my brother was free he pulled us all out through the drivers door.

We all still went to work that day as we had responsabilities. The coming Monday we went to the get checked out by the doctor.


This was around 6am. We got hit and the car rotated before facing the same direction that we were coming from.


That’s the undercarriage of the car and the other vehicle in the corner.


My door behind the drivers door. We couldn’t use it to get out and now I can see why.


The scene before we left.

I wore a neck brace for 10 days but the worst is over.

Life never stands still and neither will I. I rediscovered myself and will share these revelations in posts to come :)

“Last night I lost the world, and gained the universe.”
― C. JoyBell C.

Life goes on


“According to Vedanta, there are only two symptoms of
enlightenment, just two indications that a transformation
is taking place within you toward a higher consciousness.
The first symptom is that you stop worrying. Things don’t
bother you anymore. You become light-hearted and full of joy. The
second symptom is that you encounter more and more meaningful
coincidences in your life, more and more synchronicities. And this
accelerates to the point where you actually experience the
miraculous. (quoted by Carol Lynn Pearson in Consider the
Butterfly )”
― Deepak Chopra, Synchrodestiny: Harnessing the Infinite Power of
Coincidence to Create Miracles



Was busy cleaning out my facebook profile when I stumbled on this message in my inbox.

I remember how I felt when I first read this. Now it just is. I glace at it with simple indifference.

It just makes me wonder what pushed her so over the edge that she felt this would be the best way she could express her emotions.


“…the past gives you an identity and the future holds the
promise of salvation, of fulfillment in whaterver form.
Both are illusions.”
― Eckhart Tolle , The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual


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